თუ გულწრფელად დიდ ინტერესს გამოიჩენთ შვილის ინტერესების მიმართ, მერე ისინიც დაინტერესდებიან თქვენით და ასე შესაძლებელია შვილთან მეგობრობის ჩამოყალიბება

What do you want to do the next 10 years?

Take some time and decide what you want.
Where do you want to go?
What do you want to do the next 10 years, 20 years?
What would you like to become?
How many skills would you like to learn?
What are the books you want to read?
How about the people you want to meet?
The cities you want to visit, experiences you would like to have over this next period of time.
Start thinking about all of that.
Write it all down!

Pain of losing & Joy of winning

We all grow from two experiences. One is called the pain of losing. The other one is called the joy of winning. We need both of them. Amplify them as much as you can. Which also means - make losing painful. If you set up something fooled around didn't get it put it on yourself. On the other side if you did get it, congratulate yourself. Self congratulations is a sign of maturity. Seeking congratulations is the sign of immaturity

Set goals, write them down, design the future

It's difficult to be confident about the day if you don't have your future well designed. Here is one of the keys to do about your future - set goals, write them down, design the future
- Where do you want to go,
- What do you want to do,
- What do you want to be,
- What do you want to see,
- What do you want to have,
- What do you want to share
Even if it all changes 12 months from now the key is to start making a list now

Matthew principle

There's a statement in the New Testament, it's called the Matthew principle and economists use it to describe how the economy in the world works - "To those who have everything more will be given, from those who have nothing everything will be taken". It's like very pessimistic in some sense because it means that as you start to fail you fail more and more rapidly but it also means that as you start to succeed you succeed more and more rapidly

აი როგორც გაგრძელდება თქვენი ცხოვრება, ეგ იქნება თქვენი არჩევანი.
რასაც თქვენ ვერ გააკეთებთ, ეგ იქნება თქვენი არგაკეთების სურვილი მხოლოდ, რაშიც თქვენი ტვინიც მოგეხმარებათ

Reasons can change your life

He said - "I don't think your current bank balance is a true indication of your level of intelligence". I was happy to hear that. He said - "I think you're much smarter than your present bank balance indicates" and that turned out to be true. I was much smarter. But of course my first question was well then why isn't it bigger and he said - "you don't have enough reasons. you've got enough intelligence but not enough reasons". Reasons can change your life

When are you sick of yourself?

When are you sick of yourself? - Well, that's when you're being useless and irresponsible for yourself and for your family and for your community. You're not even taking care of yourself. You can't sleep with a clean conscience unless you are psychopathic if you're not taking care of yourself. Adopt a little responsibility for yourself and you can sleep with the clean conscience. What happens if you'd opted full responsibility for yourself and then for your family?

მასწავლებლებო!
არ გააკრიტიკოთ და პატივი ეცით ბავშვს
არასოდეს დააბეზღოთ ბავშვი მშობელთან
ბავშვი მშობლის თვალში აამაღლეთ
დაეხმარეთ ბავშვს და გვერდით დაუდექით
შეამკეთ ბავშვი!

Welcome every human experience

Desire can be triggered by something. Who knows what it might be. Sometimes desire waits and sleeps for something to happen. Maybe it's a book, maybe it's a song, maybe it's a sermon, maybe it's a lecture, a seminar, maybe it's the conversation of a friend, a happening, an event,.. who knows. Welcome every human experience. You never know which one is going to turn it all on. Even the bad experiences. Sometimes from the bitterest experience comes the greatest awakening

Cortisol makes you old

If you have a memory that's more than 18 month old approximately and when you pull that memory up to mind, if you still have an emotional reaction, that means you have not fully articulated the memory. You have not analyzed it causally, you have not freed yourself from its grasp and you are carrying it like a weight and your brain responds to that. The more baggage you are carrying like that the more stress hormone cortisol your brain produces and cortisol makes you old

Learn how to handle the winters

Learn how to handle the winters. They come right after Falls with regularity. Some are long and some are short and some are hard and some are easy but they keep coming.
You must handle the nights, they come right after days.
You must learn to handle difficulty, it comes right after opportunity.
You must learn to handle recessions, they always follow progressions.
...
For the last six thousand see it's not going to change. The lesson you must learn is how to handle it!

რა არის პრაგმატული აზროვნება?

პრაგმატული აზროვნება რა არის? თითოეულმა ადამიანმა აკეთოს ის, რითაც მაქსიმალურად შემატებს ოჯახს, ქვეყანას,.. და არ აკეთოს ის, რაც არავის არაფერს არ აძლევს, და რითაც საკუთარ თავს აზიანებს

საუკეთესო საჩუქარი შვილისთვის

- გინდათ ბავშვს თქვენი თავი აჩუქოთ? აჩუქეთ თქვენი სრულყოფილება, თქვენი ზრუნვა, რომ თვითონ გახდეთ მისაბაძი, იშვიათი კულტურის მატარებელი.
შვილისთვის საუკეთესო საჩუქარი თვითონ მშობელია

Positive ancestral father

Imagine that you are like the potential composite of all the ancestral wisdom that's locked inside of you biologically. But that's not gonna come out at all unless you stress yourself, unless you challenge yourself. The bigger the challenge you take on the more that's gonna turn on. As you take on a broader and broader range of challenges and you push yourself harder then more and more of what you could be turns on and that's equivalent to transforming yourself into the ancestral father

No one teaches kids these things in school

Kids have been educated for twelve years and no one had ever sat them down and said - okay what the hell are you doing and why and how are you gonna get there?
- Where do you want to go?
- Why do you want to get there?
- How are you gonna get there?
- How are you gonna mark your progress?
They've never walked them through that exercise.
If you walk people through that exercise just to get them to do that increases the probability that they'll stay on track by 50%. That's incredible

There's nothing worse than being stupid

Get the information while you are here.
There's nothing worse than being stupid when you get out of school, so get the information. Being broke is bad but being stupid is what's really bad. And what's really really bad is being broken stupid. Nothing much worse than that unless you are sick. Sick broken stupid... that's about as far as you can fall unless you are ugly... but surely that would be the ultimate right? The ultimate negative life - ugly sick broken stupid. So learn all you can

მოდი რა, ნებისმიერ ბიუჯეტში შენი და სხვისი ცხოვრება გახადე ლამაზი.
შენსას თუ ვერ ხდი, სხვისი მაინც გახადე. რაღაცა გააკეთე, რაღაცა შექმენი,.. როცა გაიხსენებ, გაიფიქრო, რომ ტყუილად არ გიცხოვრია

Key to discipline

Now, here’s the key to discipline. Start with the little disciplines. Get excited over the little disciplines and get right on those, because those will lead to the big ones. You can’t handle the big challenges in life unless you take on the little ones.
Make a list of all the things you can do. Get right on those. Discipline yourself for those, both for the results and for the muscle and the practice, so that when life hands you some big challenges, you’ll be ready, you’ll have the muscle

How to prepare for the flood?

Even if things are going really well for you now there's going to be a time in the future where things are rough. You're gonna be ill, family members are gonna be ill, a dream is gonna fall apart, you're going to be uncertain about your employment status... The flood is coming. The apocalypse is coming. It's always the case in life and you have to be prepared for it. And the question is - how to prepare for it? And the answer to that is to find a way of being that works even under the diarist of circumstances

Get serious about your goals

Get serious about your goals. Put them on paper. Write them down. There's all kinds - his goals, her goals, their goals, business goals, financial goals, financial independence goals, family goals... There's so many things to work on on this. If you don't get busy and work on it sure enough the time will pass. And sure enough five years from now you'll wind up where you don't want to be, wear what you don't want to wear, driving what you don't want to drive, being what you don't want to be. Now is the time to fix it

Something that matters effects how you make decisions in your life

Something that matters effects how you make decisions in your life. Well why does it matter how you make decisions in your life? - Because if you make some stupid decisions, you're going to increase the sum total of suffering a lot. You're going to do stupid things to yourself, you're going to do stupid things to other people and you're not going to be as good a person as you could be. So not only will you do stupid and terrible things but you won't have manifested the good in the world that you could have manifested

There is evil in the world of all sorts and some of it's the evil in other people. And some of it is the evil in your brother's heart. But part of it that you can really do something about that's the malevolence in your own heart. You can actually do something about that and that's actually way more useful than you think. Because if you can face it in you, then you start to understand it and that also makes you strong enough to identify it and to fight it when you see it in the external world. Plus you don't do any harm

ყველაზე ნაკლებს ვთხოვთ ხოლმე ჩვენ გონებას. როცა რაღაც კრიზისია, ადექი და ამოხსენი. ეს შეიძლება აზარტულიც იყოს - "აი ეს მე როგორ ვერ უნდა გავაკეთო..."
სხეულის სხვა ნაწილებს უფრო ვთხოვთ ხოლმე, ვიდრე გონებას